21 April 2014

Because I don't have a penis....

It is a well known fact the sexes in India are treated very differently. And it is very sad too. But what to do.
Women are housewives mainly, born to serve the husband and make him happy. Bear the children, take care of them, cook, and eat just after the man of the household had filled his stomach. To my great surprise Indian women enjoy this cohabitation. They want money only from their spouse in return for the warm home. They don't aspire for anything more than just to have a family (of course, I am generalizing).
The other day, when I couldn't bear the fucking heat in my room anymore, I laid down in front of our room. Just simply on the floor, in my clothes, in the hall , just like an Indian. Lower class Indians do it all the time. White women probably not. That is why half of the hotel came checking me out until the morning. Fuck the safety, I was too hot.
I guess Muslim women in their burqas must be boiling yet it is normal for their husbands to take off their shirts. Fucking sexism. When I went for the swim, Indians were in their clothes. All of the girls; the ones wearing a saree, and moreover also the ones in jeans, dipped into the ocean fully clothed. I've seen few guys fooling with the waves in their jeans too. However most of them went only in their longis or underwear. If I would do that I would probably get raped. So how come women wouldn't rape a guy in his underwear? Well, I would, but that is a completely different story.
Unfortunately, this is no different in the west. Only the means of sexism are different. While western women are often career minded that doesn't necessarily mean they escaped the social stigma of the sex discrimination. Magazines feed us with skinny models, media sells us beauty products which will make us slim, young, desirable. So only slim and young is desirable? According to this world, the answer is yes. However male sex symbols are men like George Clooney (because being older and white-haired is hot), Bruce Willis (because bold is sexy) or Robert Pattinson (I seriously have no clue what is sexy about him). Imagine though a women with the same features. Older than 50? What a turtle! White hair? Yak! Bold? I think I am going to puke...
If you reverse the roles, so the man would have female features- slim, young, with firm breasts and buttocks, shaved, tanned... all of this is definitely desirable and acceptable by the society. So in conclusion: men can do anything. Even pee while standing. Women are not allowed. Fucking sexist world.

8 April 2014

You are cordially not invited


For a long time I didn't find the time to update my blog. I have been too happy, therefore nothing to write about. Do I always write only when sad? Perhaps we don't need to share our happiness as much as we need to complain about our problems.
So here I am. Married. Excited, happy, a bit scared. But I am not alone; there are two of us feeling this way. I suppose that's what the marriage is about...